• You are curious about cybersex and would like to learn more without actually trying it.
• You engage in it and want to know what others think about it.
• You tried it and didn't like it and you still want to know why other people do like it.
• Life online fascinates you.

Perhaps...

... out of curiosity and some sense of erotic possibility you visited an adult chat room. While you were not sure what it would be like, you found yourself disappointed, thinking, "Surely there is more to cybersex than this."

... you visited an adult chat room out of boredom and curiosity. To your surprise a conversation with a stranger turned intensely erotic and you found yourself becoming deeply aroused. Perhaps you even allowed yourself to go "all the way." You want to understand what was happening and why the experience was so intensely exciting.

... this morning the local news show features a story on cybersex and how it is an emerging cause of divorce, and you still don't get it....

.... y ou have heard a lot about cyber and, in an attempt to understand, you visited an adult chat room. You found the people there to be lewd, crude and rude. It was either not what you had hoped or you still cannot figure out why your partner or child would visit one.

.... y ou have been tantalized by the possibilities the few times you have visited chat rooms, but you haven't quite connected.

.... y ou chat in adult rooms regularly and are looking for some ways to think about what it is you are doing and why.